I am 40, Fly and a Mom to Be. I always imagined that I would get married at like 25, have kids at 27 and just be living in the family way. Now that I see the world differently I am wondering, is marriage really necessary? Life did not happen in the traditional way for me. I loved my single…
I have found that I get so many inquiries on ClassyBlackGirl.com regarding, The Side Chick. Being the side chick, side chicks to note and what to do on official side chick notification day-Valentine’s Day. It dawned on me that I had not written a post on how NOT to be the Side Chick. I know that even the best of…
I cannot negate the ego hit that you get from knowing that multiple somebodies from Plenty of Fish or Black People Meet are sending you messages. However, I had some experiences that had me like…. “Maybe online dating is not for me.” SMART, BLACK DUDE First there was, Smart Black Dude. He was cute with glasses and a Blerd (which…
Life is funny you know. Telling the men-friends in your life that you are pregnant. Here is my story of telling two men that I care for. I was twelve weeks and it was time. The first one was my ex. I was fully in love with this gentleman. However he didn’t want to have children-ever. He also had changed…